Mastering The Process: The Key To Achieving Your Dreams (Motivational Speech)

In this episode, Reginald D dives into the importance of managing the processes of your life. He emphasizes that success is rooted in understanding and working through these processes, which requires patience and discipline. Many people struggle because they lack the patience to see their dreams through, often giving up too soon.

Reginald D encourages you to focus on your journey and not be distracted by the opinions of others. It's crucial to recognize that while we can't control every aspect of life, we can control our efforts and how high we aim.

Ultimately, Reginald D leaves you with the message that living a purpose-filled life involves embracing the processes and setting high standards for yourself. It's about grinding through challenges and not quitting, because everyone has the potential to achieve their dreams. 

Transcript

Welcome to Real Talk, Reginald D. I'm your host, Reginald D. On today's episode, I'm going to talk about managing the processes of your life. Let's go. No matter what you do or who you want to become, it will only come from a process. Many people fall short on life because they can't handle or don't understand the process. I need you to understand that nothing will come forth in your life if you refuse to work the process. That's why it's so critical to have patience. See, sometimes working the process takes time. That's why patience is so important. The reason you keep giving up in life is because of your patience. You keep quitting on your dreams and your desires because you're not patient enough. I need you to know that most people think that being patient is a sign of weakness. But in all reality, patience is a strength that drives everything else that's inside of you. Check this out. As long as you know where you're going in life and know what you want out of life, the process becomes easier to manage simply because you know what you want. The life you know is all you need. I need you to understand that you've got to quit worrying about the things you can't control. Think about a kite, for instance. You can't control the direction it flies because of the wind, but you can control how high you want it to go by letting out more string. That's the same thing about life. You can't control its direction sometimes, but you can control how high you can go in the direction it's taking you. You got to understand that life is a continuous process of getting used to grinding for the things you haven't achieved yet. And as you manage the process of your life, you have to remind yourself that you got to travel your own journey at your own pace. That's how you stay in control. You don't know what will happen tomorrow with certainty. But you got to make sure that you're making decisions about what you will do tomorrow based on what you know today. The more you conquer today will determine how much you will conquer tomorrow. Let your today inspire your hope for tomorrow. When managing the processes of your life, you can't be afraid of change. Change is part of any process. You have to be brave enough to embrace it. I know you're overwhelmed by all the decisions you have to make in life. I know it gets scary. because you want to make the best decisions for your life. But what if I tell you that the best decision you can make in your life sometimes is not to make a decision. You got to let some things work themselves out. You don't need to do anything about it. If you embrace the process when it comes to your life, you're allowing your life to surprise you. You are a remarkable person. There is something special about you. Before your greatness comes forth, you have to manage the processes of your life. Stop being distracted and manage the process of life. Do you know what distracts people the most? It's people. People are the most distracting to people. That's it. It's critical that you stop paying attention to what some people say about you. They're going to tell you you're not good enough. People are going to look at your past and say you can't accomplish your dreams and desires. They're going to downplay you. That's just what some people do. But you can't let what people say get in your head. I know you're not perfect, and none of us is, and people will use that against you. I need you to understand, although you're not perfect, you are perfect for your situation. You are perfect for your dreams. Stop being mad when people tell you that you're not good enough. That's not the truth about you. You are more than good enough with what God has given you. Why did God give you the gift that you have? Why did he give you purpose? Do you think he would have equipped you with all of that if he didn't trust you with it? No. He trusts you. And the way you honor God's trust is that you utilize and operate in the gifts and purpose that was given to you. Manage the process of your life. Maximizing your gift is a process. Maximizing your purpose is a process. They are processes that you've got to manage on a daily basis. If you want to maximize your life, then you're going to have to deal with the process. And the process ain't nothing but work. You got to put in the work. Stop having good intentions on doing something and start doing it. Good intentions only make you feel good, but it doesn't bring results. You know the reason some people don't have a job? It's because they don't go to work. It's as simple as that. They may have good intentions, but at the end of the day, they don't make it happen. I need you to understand that your dreams won't be fulfilled until you go to work and manage the process when it comes to your dreams and desires. The reason you keep failing when it comes to achieving your goals is because you are not serious enough. It's time for you to get serious about what you want for your life. Quit playing and lock in and get serious. Life is passing you by every single day. You got to quit having empty days and start having fulfilling days. I need you to get serious enough and make every day count. And that starts with discipline. The truth of the matter is that you're not going to always be motivated. But discipline will make you keep going. The one thing that will destroy your dreams faster than you ever could imagine is your mind. So watch what you tell yourself. If you want to be successful, it takes three things. That's it. It takes planning, patience, and passion. Success demands those three things. It sounds simple, right? But to be honest with you, it's not. It's going to take a lot of effort when you're planning to accomplish something. You have to consistently think about it, put things in place, and work the plan. Then you got to have patience to allow the plan to work. Then you got to have passion to keep the plan going. You have to have the heart and the willingness to make sure whatever you set yourself out to do, you sustain it. It goes back to what I said earlier, discipline. You may not enjoy it, but you will enjoy the results. I need you to understand that you got to start believing in your abilities. If you can cover that with determination, you can make what you think is impossible, achievable. See, I'm not going to sit here and tell you that you won't have obstacles when it comes to achieving your dreams. But I will tell you that you will have the strength and the power to overcome your obstacles. You just got to be willing to face them. The main reason people don't overcome in life is because they don't face it. They run from it. They run away from it. Listen, the more you run from your obstacles and challenges, the more you run from your dreams. Your dreams are ahead of you, and obstacles and challenges are ahead of you. You got to keep moving forward. That is the process of life. Your future depends on what you do today. I need you to think about this. Ask yourself this, does what I do today and right now align with my future dreams and aspirations. If they don't align, then you are going to have to do something different or you will never achieve your dreams. One thing I need you to understand about managing the process of your life. You must have hope. Quit thinking that you are not the one. Quit thinking you are a failure because you're not. You're not a failure. You just haven't figured it out yet. That's all. Stop being your biggest challenge. Quit holding yourself back. Let your greatness flourish. You don't need a watch. You know what time it is. It's time for you to establish yourself. Hope is the anchor for your life, and you are the anchor for your dreams. I need you to remember that your heart and your mind control your dreams. What you think in your mind and in your heart will determine if you achieve your dreams and desires. Don't worry about what other people think. It's your dreams. You just got to focus on them and quit being distracted and understand the process. So you want tomorrow right now, and it don't work that way. The way you manage the processes in your life and the way you work your today will determine your tomorrow. Also, the more you eliminate stress in your life will determine how better your tomorrow is going to be. Because when you are stressed, you can't hear clearly. You can't hear what God has for your life clearly. I need you to understand that in this next chapter in your life, you need to be able to hear your assignment clearly. And when you hear it, don't shy away from it. Embrace it. It may be tough, but no struggle, no process. I'm going to leave you with this. Living a purpose-filled life comes with processes. Living a life that you dream of is a direction, not a destination. It comes with standards. Set the standards for your life. and stick to it. Make the standard the standard. And I need you to remember that when you don't do, it tells your mind that you can't do what you can do. Keep grinding and don't quit because you can do it. Thanks for tuning in to Real Talk with Reginald D. If you enjoyed listening to Real Talk with Reginald D, please take a minute to rate and review the show on Apple Podcasts. See you next time.